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QUESTION: I've started a relationship with a lovely man who I have fancied for years. We've always got on like a house on fire, and when we first kissed sparks flew. Everything seems perfect until we went to bed together. Until then he'd been the sort of man who courted me with endearments, but suddenly he started talking dirty, using words that made me blush. Worse still, he wanted me to talk dirty to him -- but I found the whole idea mortifying. I can't reconcile my romantic suitor with this foul-mouthed lover, but I'm worried I'll scare him off if I look like a prude.
ANSWER: AS WITH all matters of taste and style, there is no definitive language of love that pleases each and every individual. I was on holiday with some friends recently when a man in our group scolded a woman for using the phrase 'making love'.See the full content of this document
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He Wants Me to Talk Dirty but I Find the Whole Idea Absolutely Mortifying ; the Sex Column [Eire Region]
He said it was 'cringe-making, like something Chris de Burgh would sing to a simpering blonde'. He preferred the sort of blunt, blokey phrases you find in lads' mags. My girl friend protested: 'But when...
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