My Girlfriend has Been Faking Orgasms for Six Years ; the Sex Column [Eire Region]

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QUESTION: I've just discovered that my partner of six years has been faking orgasms throughout our relationship. I'm in shock that she could have lied to me for this long. She says she has experienced a climax only once, during sex with one of her former boyfriends, and can't explain why that was, but she insists she enjoys having sex with me. However, I feel devastated and am not sure I can carry on seeing her.

ANSWER: I understand why you feel shocked and hurt. The natural first reaction is to feel as if your love life has been a charade. Modern romance has become distressingly target-orientated, with great emphasis in magazines and the media about how to achieve an orgasm, multiple orgasms or even the nearmythical 'continuous orgasm' (no, I've never had one nor have I met anyone who has).

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My Girlfriend has Been Faking Orgasms for Six Years ; the Sex Column [Eire Region]

TV dramas and films perpetuate the ludicrous notion that couples find it easy to climax together in photogenic, breathy ecstasy. The inevitable result of all this talk of 'red hot sex' is t...

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