Summary
Dear Bel I AM a married woman, in my 40s, with children who are almost grown-up. My marriage is not unhappy although we've had ups and downs, same as most. My husband is mostly decent, hardworking and kind, but also shy and self-centred; preferring his own company, he finds people and socialising difficult. He finds it incredibly hard to 'share' himself or be emotionally involved with anyone, myself included.
Even after 20 years, I still feel I don't really know what makes him tick. I don't think he knows either.See the full content of this document
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Help! I'm Married but I've Fallen for a Female Friend ...
I am the opposite gregarious, tactile and have very close emotional relationships with my male and female friends.
This has worked well over the years because my friends gave me the emotional support that my husband couldn't. I prod him when he needs to be a bit more understanding and he keeps my feet on the ground when I'm over-emotional. We love each other and have a reasonable sex life, so where's the problem? Unfortunately, I am falling for one of my friends, 15 years older.I say 'unfortunately' because I don't want to break up my marriage or have an affa...See the full content of this document
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